I’ve been quiet lately because my boyfriend (26m) and I (24f) have been through a lot. I’ve sacrificed a lot while he was in flight training, and now becoming a pilot & moving to LA. We’re long distance, but I got a job in Phoenix last week I haven’t even told him I’ve taken yet. He has been so up and down because of finances, living situations, & just pure stress. I have stayed through it all & have cried a lot on my own. I try to communicate with him & he just thinks it’s an attack against him, & then I’m left feeling alone again.
Two days ago, he said he was worried about me, but by that time I didn’t even have enough in me to explain what I needed anymore. I just said I’m good, & he said “nice..” & hasn’t responded or called or anything in 48 hours, but he can post he’s landed in Las Vegas and post to his story & look at mine right away.
I don’t have enough energy anymore to explain what I need, & him not get upset & claim I make him feel like the worst boyfriend. I’ve been silent, & I want to continue to do so because he’s just disappointing me at this point.
What would you guys do? Remove location? Remove social? Or just keep silent?
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